Rush, rush, rush. Busy, busy, busy. We get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of our daily lives that we often make sex a chore on a checklist instead of slowing down and enjoying the moment. We blame our jobs, our kids, but the reality is that it’s all in the approach. Even in a time crunch, we can enhance the sexual experience by simply appreciating even the very initial stages. Try these simple tips get the most out of quickie sex and savor every minute.
Undress Slowly – If you are trying to get in quickie sex it may be tempting to rip your close off and cut right to the chase. However try undressing your partner, one piece of clothing at a time, stopping occasionally to admire a new piece of lingerie or plant a kiss on a recently exposed piece of skin. Repeat with each article of clothing – right down to socks. She will be so eager from all the anticipation that she’ll be ready to get down to business.
Don’t forget to stimulate her first – Since most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone don’t let the fact that you are having quickie sex make you ignore her pleasure. Start by stimulating her with your hands or tongue and make sure she is wet before you penetrate her otherwise the sex will just be quick but not satisfying.
Choose a sexy position – Since you are dealing with a short time window you won’t have time to go changing from one position to the next so pick a position that is pleasurable to both of you. You may want to try propping her up on the counter or standing up against the wall. Since quickie sex is out of your normal routine you will want to stimulate both physically and mentally with a sexy visual. So let her admire your body or admire the sexy placement of your hands grabbing her assets.