Follow these few simple tips for some easy conversation starters
Starting a conversation
It should be natural, not a cliché. Avoid pick-up lines, jokes, or complaints.
Seek to include the person; not to entertain them. This takes the pressure off of both parties to “perform” and allows conversation to flow with less effort. Conversation Starters
Ask a question or make a comment on a topic that might actually interest both of you. Her looks, your car, what you’re drinking – those are very one-sided topics. The weather, the crowd, kind of boring. Think outside the box. Asking about the last great restaurant she went to, whether she’s a dog person or a cat person, whether or not she has a favorite vacation spot… these are not only interesting Conversation Starters; they also show that you’re interested in actually getting to know the person.
Always, always, always run your words through a sensitivity filter. If it has even a slight chance of being perceived as offensive, don’t say it. Remember once you say something you can’t take it back so chose your words carefully.
Don’t get discouraged. Not everyone is receptive to genuine conversation right off the bat. When that happens, chalk it up to their loss and move on. There is always someone that is willing to listen to what you have to say. You just have to find the right person with the right chemistry for you and start up a Conversation Starters
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