Has the fire seemed to go out a little, or maybe you are having trouble sparking it in the first place? What can you do to really turn your woman on? Here are a few suggestions to draw her in and get her ready for passion.
Let's get something out of the way first. If you are lacking fire in your relationship, make sure you aren't doing anything to put distance between yourself and the missus. For example, do you frequently take calls, check texts or emails, and get distracted by the TV during conversations? These send her the sign that she just isn't that important. Rather than fanning the flames, it douses them. So do your best to make her the focus when you have alone time. A little eye contact goes a long way, and a lot of eye contact goes even farther.
Do something to set the mood.
It may seem cheesy to you, but women love when you go the extra mile to have everything just right. The right music and lighting in particular can go a long way. Scented candles are always a nice touch. You can even try doing something for her like cooking a meal. Anything that says “I appreciate you” will send you in the right direction.
Become a good kisser.
I don't care if you have to look up technique on the Internet. You can clear your browser history if you are that embarrassed. But the fact is, nothing will kill the mood faster than a lack luster make out session. So bone up on your kissing technique.
Touch at the right times and in the right ways.
A gentle caress every time you pass by can make a big difference later on. You may be spending the day doing chores, but that doesn't mean you can't be planning ahead for what she'll want later. If she feels a gentle touch while unloading the dishwasher, another later while folding laundry, and another when she's on the phone with her mother, you are slowly banking credits for later on that evening.
Don't watch TV from across the room. Put on that girly movie she's been wanting to see and make contact. The hero in the movie won't be the only one to get the girl.
Say the right things.
This depends on your woman of course. But as a general rule, little compliments (just like the little romantic caresses) throughout the day will get stored up for later. So be generous, and make her feel good about herself. And make sure to say what you really feel. She will know if it isn't genuine, and that will count against you.
Strip for Her.
Once you see that she is feeling frisky get the party started by removing your clothing little by little. Straddle her lap and slowly tease her body by gently moving your hands up her sides close to her breast but not quite touching them, then slowly remove her clothes brushing all her contours like her inner thighs and lower back. Then you can turn the tables and let her do her best private dancer routine for a steamy and teasing lap dance.
By applying a few of these techniques in tandem, you can be certain to turn your woman on.