No two women are exactly alike, and neither are their tell-tale signs of interest. Whether you are single or in a relationship it can be a complicated process guessing if a woman wants to have sex with you. Fortunately, there are a few signs that are a dead giveaway regardless of who you are dating or what her personality is like. Just like we can’t help but release testosterone when we work up a sweat, a woman can’t hide the fact she is subconsciously or even consciously interested in us.
To help you summarize if your girl is just checking you out or if she wants to get a little closer consider our list of 5 ways to know if a woman wants you right here and right now.
1. She is all over you physically.
If a woman finds you repulsive she isn’t going to go anywhere near you. But the opposite is equally true. If a girl has her hands all over your arms, shoulders, and even stomach it is a dead giveaway she is interested in more than a little conversation. Be aware that things like alcohol and drugs have a bearing on how she acts when she is around you so don’t jump to conclusions if she is under the influence.
2. She chooses you over her friends.
If you are hanging out in a large group or even at a night club you can expect a woman who is not interested to spend most of her time chatting with her friends. But if she digs you she will seek you out wherever you are and will have a strong desire to spend more time with you than anyone else. A few obvious signs are sitting next to you for as long as you will stay seated and even following you wherever you go throughout the club.
3. She’s not afraid to start a conversation centered on sex.
If she is thinking about having sex with you the topic will probably come up, perhaps not directly but at the very least vaguely. She will not hesitate to start telling you what she likes in bed and even negative experiences she’s had before in her life. The idea is to let you know subconsciously that she is into you and wouldn’t mind if you took her home. If she starts dropping hints about what she likes or if she gets particularly juicy with details then consider it a home run and ask her to come back to your place.
4. She watches your lips exclusively.
During conversation it is very common for a woman who is interested sexually to study your lips as you speak. She finds it to be a turn on and she is trying to send you a subliminal message: She wants you now! Of course, not always does this mean that she wants you mind, body, and soul but there is a good chance she will want you in the future. Women are entranced by certain body parts on men so if she is watching your lips constantly no matter how loud it may be where you are, she probably wants you.
5. She compliments your body.
If she says things like, “Wow you are really built” or “You make those jeans look good” then you should be able to read between the lines and realize she wants your body. Unlike men, women compliment in order to tell us directly what they want. They rarely come right out and say it so it is our job to read them and give them what they want.